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NYT: Can My Children Be Friends With White People?
The New York Times ^ | 11/10/17 | Ekow N. Yankah

Posted on 11/12/2017 7:21:58 AM PST by Simon Green

My oldest son, wrestling with a 4-year-old’s happy struggles, is trying to clarify how many people can be his best friend. “My best friends are you and Mama and my brother and …” But even a child’s joy is not immune to this ominous political period. This summer’s images of violence in Charlottesville, Va., prompted an array of questions. “Some people hate others because they are different,” I offer, lamely. A childish but distinct panic enters his voice. “But I’m not different.”

It is impossible to convey the mixture of heartbreak and fear I feel for him. Donald Trump’s election has made it clear that I will teach my boys the lesson generations old, one that I for the most part nearly escaped. I will teach them to be cautious, I will teach them suspicion, and I will teach them distrust. Much sooner than I thought I would, I will have to discuss with my boys whether they can truly be friends with white people.

Meaningful friendship is not just a feeling. It is not simply being able to share a beer. Real friendship is impossible without the ability to trust others, without knowing that your well-being is important to them. The desire to create, maintain or wield power over others destroys the possibility of friendship. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s famous dream of black and white children holding hands was a dream precisely because he realized that in Alabama, conditions of dominance made real friendship between white and black people impossible.

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As against our gauzy national hopes, I will teach my boys to have profound doubts that friendship with white people is possible.

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; Philosophy; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: identity; racist; white; whitepeople; whites
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There's still some racism in America, granted...but contrary to the mainstream media narrative, it's largely on the Left, as is clearly shown in this article.
1 posted on 11/12/2017 7:21:58 AM PST by Simon Green
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To: Simon Green

Teaching junior to hate white people

Just because the Democrat candidate lost.

A small, small person the writer is.


2 posted on 11/12/2017 7:24:09 AM PST by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: Simon Green

“I will teach my boys to have profound doubts that friendship with white people is possible.”

They’re going to start a war. And they won’t like the outcome.

L


3 posted on 11/12/2017 7:24:13 AM PST by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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To: Simon Green
Yes, the arrow of racism is very often pointed at whites. Further, if whites were the minority they would be oppressed by those convinced they are justified in ‘payback’. You can't allow the kind of anti-white rhetoric we've endured for a long time now, and not have it create societal divisions.
4 posted on 11/12/2017 7:25:29 AM PST by neverevergiveup
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To: Simon Green

This writer is a retard.

There’s no other way to say it.


5 posted on 11/12/2017 7:25:32 AM PST by Scott from the Left Coast
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To: Simon Green

What makes you think we want to be friends with you?


6 posted on 11/12/2017 7:25:33 AM PST by chris37 (Take a week off racist >;-)
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To: Simon Green

I finally figured out why many blscks think every white person is a racist. They are projecting their own racial animosity upon whites.


7 posted on 11/12/2017 7:27:17 AM PST by Jonty30 (What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
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To: Simon Green

it’s their Bread and Butter


8 posted on 11/12/2017 7:27:37 AM PST by butlerweave
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To: Simon Green
My oldest son, wrestling with a 4-year-old’s happy struggles, is trying to clarify how many people can be his best friend

Best friend is singular, Mr NYT. The correct answer to his question is one.

9 posted on 11/12/2017 7:28:54 AM PST by savedbygrace
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Poor black people.

White racism is so pernicious that it destroys a continent on the other side of the world.

It is so important that black children be warned that you cannot even be friends with Whitey.

10 posted on 11/12/2017 7:29:04 AM PST by Aevery_Freeman (High taxes + Government = Disorganized Crime)
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To: Simon Green

Teach away, racist lady. Your boys will probably still like white wimmin.

But, the author should remember that for every action, there is an equal an opposite reaction.


11 posted on 11/12/2017 7:30:08 AM PST by Pearls Before Swine (White is the new Black.)
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To: Simon Green

What about Jews? Since he is a professor at a Jewish University.


12 posted on 11/12/2017 7:30:59 AM PST by mindburglar (I have an above average brain stem)
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To: chris37

I have no black friends. I can count on both hands the number of conversations I have had with a black person, other than at a checkout counter, or in a business context. A black woman lives right across the street from me. We hardly see her. Her daughter does the lawnwork. It’s like they are just not “there”.


13 posted on 11/12/2017 7:31:04 AM PST by brianr10
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To: Blue Jays

Yankah, go home!
Yankah on this!


What a bizarre and completely twisted logic that NY Times writer possesses.

14 posted on 11/12/2017 7:31:49 AM PST by Blue Jays ( Rock hard ~ Ride free)
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To: Aevery_Freeman

Ekow...Hopefully, your son is much smarter than you....


15 posted on 11/12/2017 7:32:27 AM PST by JBW1949 (I'm really PC....PATRIOTICALLY CORRECT!!!!)
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To: Simon Green

Sounds like a case for Child Protective Services.


16 posted on 11/12/2017 7:32:31 AM PST by VanShuyten ("...that all the donkeys were dead. I know nothing as to the fate of the less valuable animals.")
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To: Simon Green

Lord loves a working man, don’t trust whitey and see a doctor to get rid of it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ohBUYQJflU


17 posted on 11/12/2017 7:33:26 AM PST by Eddie01
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To: Simon Green

Generalizations and stereotypes are mechanisms of a small mind. Twain said “Generalizations are no darn good, including this one.”


18 posted on 11/12/2017 7:33:40 AM PST by Spok
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To: Simon Green

Many minority children are first ‘imprinted’ with the vague concept of negative racial prejudice while at home.
This is one reason it takes so much effort to fix or remove years later.

Others become spiritually branded with bigotry once they reach the teen years, as a desperate way to achieve peer acceptance. For some groups, there is bonding and status in victimhood, be it from real or exaggerated experience.


19 posted on 11/12/2017 7:34:00 AM PST by lee martell
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To: JBW1949

The dingbat needs to figure out that SHE and the FATHER (If there is one around) will raise the kid to have friends REGARDLESS of their friends “color” (race)


20 posted on 11/12/2017 7:34:33 AM PST by DaveA37
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