This is very true. I’m a perfect example. Two parents with high powered medical careers. Too busy to keep an eye on kids, day or night.
Guess who is always home for her kids after school? Me! I know what can happen. Guess who did not put her children’s rooms in the front of the home with easy access for pedos to get them out? And I homeschooled 3/4 kids for years. Pedos have to go through ME to get to my kids, and that will be difficult!
You're protecting your children in a way that you wish you had been protected. Your pain is very real.