Put aside the fantasy; let's deal with the reality of ship captains and OOD’s who are playing chicken with craft that are slow moving and non-maneuverable. We're getting hit by concrete walls which the warship had no business being within a half mile of.
Could be a combination of issues. Discipline/professionalism/training, etc.
Looking at the cargo ship's track prior to hitting Fitzgerald, I wonder if its navigation system was hacked. GPS spoofing recently occured in the Black Sea. Spoof the Fitzgerald's position while "guiding" the cargo vessel into it.
I suspect that there are several issues at play in all four USN collisions this year. My bet is that they are all progressive, and not merely coincidence. $.02