Exactly.
Remember, feminists say you determine sexual harassment from the perspective of the VICTIM.
Doesn’t matter what was intended, the context, the facts. Just matters that the female/victim perceived she was sexually harassed.
Well, if the victim is in sole control over whether or not a harassment has occurred, then obviously we must punish the victim and let the “harrasser” go scot free. Can’t punish someone for a crime someone else committed.