I’ve seen that sort decide that they’re a lesbian at that point. Pretending they’ve finally discovered who they really are after all those years, shacking up with another woman, pretending to have finally found happiness, acting all ‘cool’ and ‘hip’ to try and hide how miserable they’ve become.
And these lesbian relationships never last long. And note how almost all have one that is clearly “the man”. That lesbian is the provider/ATM to the other more womanly lesbian, and wears the strapon.
But as all women are hypergamous, that means they are not content and happy in a regular consistent relationship. They need drama and hate boredom and if that happens they start hating the other person and start looking for an exit. Two women in a relationship is a double disaster. The level of drama present....
The one playing “the man” gets tired of the crap from the more womanly one, and the more womanly one treats the manly lesbian badly, like she would treat a guy she was in a relationship with. Just awful. Inescapable.