[Justa]

You know I travel all over the world meeting people from different cultures. Anyplace outside the West women are generally a delight to be around. They are very friendly and engaging, even in Mexico. If I needed a mate that’s where I’d go to find one.

Why is it that only Western women view Western men as “bitter men with chips on their shoulders.? Why is the West different in this way? If Western men really are like that then how come they do so well with women from outside the West? And why aren’t American women going outside the West if the Western men are so bad? Surely, if the Western men are as bad you implied successful Western women, not Western men, should have the pick of the crop outside of the West. Why don’t they? Why is it Western men are the ones doing so well with non-Western women?

[af_vet_1981]

1. Why is it that only Western women view Western men as “bitter men with chips on their shoulders.?
2. Why is the West different in this way?
3. If Western men really are like that then how come they do so well with women from outside the West?
4. And why aren’t American women going outside the West if the Western men are so bad?
5. Surely, if the Western men are as bad you implied successful Western women, not Western men, should have the pick of the crop outside of the West. Why don’t they?
6. Why is it Western men are the ones doing so well with non-Western women?

Answers
1. Western women have the legal and financial protections to be able to do so; the women in the rest of the world are not as independent.
2. Judeo-Christian tradition followed and superseded by the Enlightenment, political liberalism, universal suffrage, widespread divorce, contraception, and abortion.
3. Tickets; out of poverty and into Western citizenship with economic and religious freedom; chance to bear children who inherit those tickets and bring whole family.
4. Western women give something up to go outside; women who convert to Islam and move to Islamic world are an example. Men from less progressive cultures are not likely to provide Western women with the freedoms they expect so the women are at a disadvantage in both worlds.
5. They are competing for youth and beauty with their tickets. Sometimes they are outbid. It's not as if retirees are looking for older Russian, Thai, Filipina, African, etc. women so the Western retirees can look after these women in nursing homes.
6. Tickets; money and citizenship opportunities