And what is your theory?
Deliberate ramming.
Anyone pretending this isn't extremely suspect needs a theory, not people pointing out that in addition to two hundred plus years of naval experience with not slamming ships into one another (including WWII where large fleets of ships worked together without slamming into one another) along with the fact that the destroyer in question is outfitted with the latest radars and sensors we can build.
on the freighters 1st run towards the DDG it unleashed an EMP that had the destroyer dead in the water and blind.
On the second run it rammed it.
Note that it hit the DDG square not a glancing blow.