Then neither you nor your wife know anything about the history of the Constitution.
Smoke-filled backroom mancaves: no. Committee meetings held in the environs of Philadelphia, attended by state delegations that had to arrive by horse after many days in the saddle: yes.
If you can find ANY quote from ANY of the voluminous writings of the framers crediting their "womenfolk" with ANY significant contribution to their work on the Constitution, I'd love to see it.