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The women who sleep with a stranger to save their marriage [talaq, talaq, talaq vs halala]
BBC ^ | 4-5-17 | Athar Ahmad

Posted on 04/05/2017 5:00:25 PM PDT by SJackson

A number of online services are charging "divorced" Muslim women thousands of pounds to take part in "halala" Islamic marriages, a BBC investigation has found. Women pay to marry, have sex with and then divorce a stranger, so they can get back with their first husbands.

Farah - not her real name - met her husband after being introduced to him by a family friend when she was in her 20s. They had children together soon afterwards but then, Farah says, the abuse began.

"The first time he was abusive was over money," she tells the BBC's Asian Network and Victoria Derbyshire programme.

"He dragged me by my hair through two rooms and tried to throw me out of the house. There would be times where he would just go crazy."

Despite the abuse, Farah hoped things would change. Her husband's behaviour though became increasingly erratic - leading to him "divorcing" her via text message.

"I was at home with the children and he was at work. During a heated discussion he sent me a text saying, 'talaq, talaq, talaq'."

"Triple talaq" - where a man says "talaq", or divorce, to his wife three times in a row - is a practice which some Muslims believe ends an Islamic marriage instantly. It is banned in most Muslim countries but still happens, though it is impossible to know exactly how many women are "divorced" like this in the UK.

"I had my phone on me," Farah explains, "and I just passed it over to my dad. He was like, 'Your marriage is over, you can't go back to him.'"

(Excerpt) Read more at bbc.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; United Kingdom; War on Terror
KEYWORDS: divorce; talaq
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1 posted on 04/05/2017 5:00:25 PM PDT by SJackson
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To: SJackson

Common Muslim practice.


2 posted on 04/05/2017 5:03:19 PM PDT by jennychase
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To: SJackson

Ashley Madison’s new line of business?


3 posted on 04/05/2017 5:03:31 PM PDT by Loyalist (Deplorably yours!)
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>”He dragged me by my hair through two rooms and tried to throw me out of the house. There would be times where he would just go crazy.”

Get a weapon and restraining order, in that order. Shoot to kill and relieve us of yet another islamic killer.


4 posted on 04/05/2017 5:03:34 PM PDT by soycd
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I recall posting about this many years ago, when there was some ban put on cell phone divorces somewhere in the Mideast. My impression was it was mostly divorce one of your wives on your flight to Vegas or Monaco, to make room. Marry a hooker for a day or two. Talaq her, take wifey back when you get home. Wifey won't care. Neither will western feminists, just a slightly different culture. Guess someone other than divorce lawyers, the halala brokers, learned to make money from it

5 posted on 04/05/2017 5:03:53 PM PDT by SJackson (The Pilgrims—Doing the jobs Native Americans wouldn’t do !)
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To: SJackson

Satan has deceived so many souls. Islam is a pathway to Hell.


6 posted on 04/05/2017 5:05:16 PM PDT by A message
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To: SJackson

[”Triple talaq” - where a man says “talaq”, or divorce, to his wife three times in a row]

I break with thee.
I break with thee.
I break with thee. /Steve Martin

I won’t mention the shoes.


7 posted on 04/05/2017 5:11:06 PM PDT by SaveFerris (Hebrews 13:2 Do not forget to entertain strangers, for ... some have unwittingly entertained angels)
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To: SJackson

I recall posting about this many years ago, when there was some ban put on cell phone divorces somewhere in the Mideast. My impression was it was mostly divorce one of your wives on your flight to Vegas or Monaco, to make room. Marry a hooker for a day or two. Talaq her, take wifey back when you get home. Wifey won’t care. Neither will western feminists, just a slightly different culture. Guess someone other than divorce lawyers, the halala brokers, learned to make money from it


The Soviets had a similar system. You could “marry” a prostitute (state sponsored, what would she be like?), stay the night, then “divorce her” in the morning, maybe only an hour or two later.

Iran has the same thing. Houses of prostitution where you “marry” for a couple of hours, then “divorce”.

I asked an Iranian what the purpose of such an arrangement was. He said if any children resulted, they would know who to go after.

It all amounts the giving absolute control over all aspects of life to the state, whether Islamic or secular.


8 posted on 04/05/2017 5:11:17 PM PDT by marktwain (President Trump and his supporters are the Resistance. His opponents are the Reactionaries.)
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The story says that this support for this bizarre, sick practice is restricted to a tiny minority of Muslims. A friend of mine who grew up in Teheran and left in 1979 (a good time to leave) tells me it’s the dictate of sharia law.
What insanity.


9 posted on 04/05/2017 5:13:18 PM PDT by JOHN ADAMS
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"He dragged me by my hair through two rooms and tried to throw me out of the house. There would be times where he would just go crazy."

And yet she says he is "the love of her life."

Lady, you need help.

10 posted on 04/05/2017 5:21:05 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Not a Romantic, not a hero worshiper and stop trying to tug my heartstrings. It tickles! (pink bow))
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Not only are mohammedans satanically bizarre—they are more bizarre than any normal person could imagine.
11 posted on 04/05/2017 5:29:06 PM PDT by Governor Dinwiddie
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But wouldn’t it also mean he would have to kill her for having sex with another man?


12 posted on 04/05/2017 5:31:15 PM PDT by ichabod1 (I call Obama "osama" because he damaged us far more than Osama bin Ladin ever did.)
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To: SJackson

SAVAGES

MEDIEVAL SAVAGES


13 posted on 04/05/2017 6:15:51 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Deplorables' Lives Matter)
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To: marktwain

Interesting. I’ve never heard of that in Iran or the Soviet Union. The Arabs seem to be one up on them, cell phone divorce. No government involvement. The halala thing I don’t know, but doesn’t sound like government. Unless we consider the Imams government.


14 posted on 04/05/2017 6:17:03 PM PDT by SJackson (The Pilgrims—Doing the jobs Native Americans wouldn’t do !)
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But wouldn’t it also mean he would have to kill her for having sex with another man?

I guess not. I'm not familiar with the halala stuff. The article doesn't suggest why it's necessary. If the husband wants to take her back, take her back and beat her. Haven't a clue why she needs the halala marriage.

15 posted on 04/05/2017 6:19:03 PM PDT by SJackson (The Pilgrims—Doing the jobs Native Americans wouldn’t do !)
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There is no separation of Imans and Government in Islam, that I can tell.

I think, in Islam, the government and the religious authorities are one, at least in theory.


16 posted on 04/05/2017 6:39:16 PM PDT by marktwain (President Trump and his supporters are the Resistance. His opponents are the Reactionaries.)
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To: soycd
Get a weapon

Britain...

17 posted on 04/05/2017 6:39:51 PM PDT by Poison Pill
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To: Governor Dinwiddie

They are inbred genetic defectives.


18 posted on 04/05/2017 6:40:54 PM PDT by Noumenon ("Only the dead have seen an end to war.")
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But wouldn’t it also mean he would have to kill her for having sex with another man?


No. Islam is very legalistic. For example, you have to have two men witness a rape, or no prosecution.

If she is divorced, she can marry and have sex with someone else. Then she can divorce again, and go back to the first husband.

The reason for the second marriage probably is to fulfill some legalism in Islam.


19 posted on 04/05/2017 6:42:53 PM PDT by marktwain (President Trump and his supporters are the Resistance. His opponents are the Reactionaries.)
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To: Gay State Conservative

Saint Thomas Aquinas and Saint Francis of Assisi were medieval. The problem isn’t that muslims are medieval. The problem is that they are muslims.


20 posted on 04/05/2017 6:43:46 PM PDT by Arthur McGowan (https://youtu.be/IYUYya6bPGw)
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