Sad thing is, guys are taught not to hit women.
You can say all you want about “she deserved it”, but when you get in front of a judge the guy may very well come after you if you have cleaned her clock.
You’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.
Black, white, tall, short, male, female don’t mean a damn thing. My only calculus is “are they a threat?” A 5’2” 100 pound girl can kill you just as dead with a knife or gun as a 6’4” linebacker of a guy.
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