Why do u think that many women like the effeminate gays?
One example from personal experience: I once worked with a woman, call her Jane, who was very good looking and had a killer body.
She got very tired of going out by herself or with girlfriends because guys would hit on her practically non-stop and it was embarrassing to her.
She finally hit on a soultion. A guy who worked with us, John, was queer. He and Jane agreed to go out together to stop the guys from hitting on her. It worked.