Are you speaking from personal knowledge? If not, how can you make a blanket statement about something you know nothing about?
I have no personal knowledge of having a baby, but I think I and other men can speak intelligently about it.
I’ve worked in public health for many years and have a long time friend living and working in public health in the San Fran area for decades. You clearly don’t have a clue. Homos in Hollywood productions do not reflect the real world.