Well, I'm not near 60 yet, but it has nothing to do with age. Huma is 40 and I was attracted to 40 year old women even as a teenager IF they were hot. She's hot.
Maybe you're the exception, but the OUTER beauty physical standard of MOST guys devolves, while the INNER beauty becomes more valuable and appreciated as women grow older.
I can appreciate your personal gauge of "hot," if not your rating.