The grandparents really don't, but they're still friendly.
I've developed a reputation, undeserved, that I'm not one to be messed with. Must be the military bearing that's stayed with me for nearly 40 years, and I've been to enough Veteran's Day ceremonies. Maybe my children's friends heard stories from my kids...who knows?
Some folk hear *LOVE* government indoctrination.
They will fight tooth and nail to exalt government “brain washing” above all things.