One certainty is that the Catholic Church is not a democracy.
You are not wrong on your observations, but the remedy is in the will of the Lord. God brought Joseph (a precursor of Christ Jesus) up from the pit and set him in the King’s house. Our hope is in the Lord. We are suppose to be a peculiar people, a holy nation. As lambs.
Neither side really complains about the Basics of our respective, chosen ways to accomplish this 'trust'; it's just in the details that we squabble over.