Women in general don’t really talk like that in real life. They talk like that on tv because their dialogue is written by gay men. Women on tv talk like gay men. Gay men don’t really know a lot about women in general.
Unfortunately, there are women who talk like this because they think it is cool and makes them look like a strong woman. I think they get the idea from TV though. So you are probably right about the origins.
My wife would beg to differ with you.