Shucks, you'll just have to use the really nice Lightning earbuds they include with the phone. Or you could use the Lightning to 1/8" stereo adapter they include with the phone.
Or you could just shut your pie hole and stop spreading misinformation about a product you will never use.
OR - you can read what I wrote - you cannot charge and use the adapter at the same time. Sucks, doesn’t it?
Reading is fundamental!