Then stay married. If you don’t want to be in family court them don’t be
No one has a “righ to be a parent. You may have contributed some genetics that doesn’t make you a parent
Your children can’t be forced to live or like you
75% of all divorces are instigated by the wife.
Staying married in that situation is not an option.
Even divorced fathers who where bad husbands have parental rights. Too many women use their children to get back at their former spouses for slights, real or imagined.
“Your children can’t be forced to live or like you”
This is true, but until the child is emancipated, they don’t get to make the decision about whether to see Mom or Dad - a decision which is likely to be heavily influenced by the parent who, in violation of Court orders, is bashing the other parent. In the same vein, they don’t get to decide by themselves about marriage, sex, medical care, alcohol consumption, obeying rules etc.
Parent means parent. Child means child. Children are not autonomous.