“No one who isn’t you should interact with your kids.”
This s a strange statement. Even with parents present? This is a sure way to break the bonds of community by instilling paranoia in the young.
I think the post 9-11 generations are so trained to value security over freedom, it is a real problem. They don't get that government can be a threat to our freedoms, and this is why the Constitution is all about limiting the power of the government.