Case in point, Poland's neighbors to the south, The Slovaks. Almost identical in every way, Hitler's treatment of the Slovaks was fairly benign, even allowing them a "puppet" State during the war, run by a Catholic Priest. And Slovaks were more than happy to get rid of their Jews.
And Germans didn't consider Slovaks to be rivals.
They also knew that they could exploit Czech-Slovak hostility to their advantage.
Poland had over a century of conflict with Germany that made it unlikely that Poles and Germans would ally.
Poland also had a strong orientation towards Britain and France that other countries and peoples in the region didn't share.