Enterprise is correct. I had my fun as a kid. Smoked some dope when friends happened to offer and a little bit of drinking. (Never really took to drinking)
I try my very hardest not to be a hypocrite.
But I watched what a junkie will do to a family, as I stood by helplessly. To this day, I hope my brother is dead in a ditch because of the way he terrorized my Mom and Dad.
I have seen it happen to people close to me also. I warned another woman that her husband was using heroin. She sort of resented that I told her that. Long story short, they lost their home. They never divorced, but the wife died a couple of years ago, and the husband recently died from probable liver failure related to drinking.