Ms. Bobs seems a tad too self-centered to be counseling anybody.
Well, it's probably taken out of context. I mean, really, I can see her point. She'd been working with the girl, and this is a sucker-punch to the gut to her. She was ultimately trying to help, and she'll be living with the "what ifs" the rest of her life. Honestly, she's probably in shock.
Ms. Bobs knew this child personally and was reacting soon after hearing this horrible news. I’m inclined to give her a pass.