He is 14 nearly 15, so in less than 4 yrs he can move out and come live with his dad. He’s not happy living with his mom. You can’t even send him a gift card with that BD or Christmas card she steals it for herself. I get what he needs and have Amazon send it there, she can’t return it for the money, that would only come back to my gift card. She is hooked on Xanax from her breast cancer treatments, and is not a mother just a junkie zombie, not a fit mother, he already out strips her in education, but he is being imprinted with her bad habits. Son works 12-14 hrs a day, which will get longer when the district manager’s job goes thru. She has to file for divorce, and she won’t, if son does, it’s double the cost because she is in Indiana and he’s in TN. Plus she would lose the $400 on her SS disability that goes to support him so that will stay in limbo until he is 18. She does not realize the hole she has dug for herself she is that zoned out.
Oh wow! He is very fortunate to have you and your son ready and able to pick up any pieces. Wishing for the protection of your grandson, and the very best solution for all concerned, according to God’s will and timing.