But as sexualized as they are, something prevents them from projecting it in the normal (heterosexual) direction. So they try to make up in quantity what their "relationships" lack in quality, and part of the thrill they find is in the danger, the risk.
But of course, that isn't enough either, so the risks get greater and greater and the pretensions more and more absurd, until you get things like "Gay Pride," which is an absolute farce. There is NOTHING in the homo lifestyle to merit any "pride."