I wouldn’t get married in the US even WITH a pre-nup. Judges in certain states can toss those out on a whim, with no cause whatsoever, and women routinely file divorce papers in whatever state has the laws stacked most in their favor, so there is no reliable way to avoid something like that.
Whenever I’m asked why we went to China to adopt our daughter, I answer “because there’s no such thing as a binding contract with a woman in this country if a child is involved.”