This shouldn’t be controversial or uncharitable. It’s just fact, by every measure of observable reality.
Freegards
I think all of us have met men that seem more female than male and met women that seem more male than female. And, they don't seem to me to be faking.
What seems to be changing is the technology. I don't know whether we should be using every technology that we develop, but that seems to be the question here.
Personally, I have always been thankful to be comfortably male and to have been born with normal desires. I would not trade places with these people for anything.
“I think all of us have met men that seem more female than male and met women that seem more male than female. And, they don’t seem to me to be faking.”
I think there are folks that genuinely believe they are the opposite sex. But this doesn’t determine what sex they themselves are attracted to. In any case, yes the legitimate ones have a malady in my opinion, and shouldn’t be despised or shunned, but helped.
But this doesn’t mean that women should have to tolerate men using their sex-exclusive areas, no matter what.