That's because it's not possible. It's pretty hard to lie to yourself and expect yourself to believe it.
Worse is that medical community does not deal with underlying issues- but promotes that someone can actually change genders.
Which community is sicker- medical for allowing this or transgenders for believing
Talk about a suicidal using it as blackmail and reproach on others.
There was a doctor that got in hot water when he wrote an article that cited his experience that most transgendered people who decline surgury but instead focus on psychiatric counseling have near identical levels of happiness years later.
The idea that discussing what makes them unhappy may work better than mutilating themselves to chase an impossible dream is “crazy talk” in the current environment.