Not true. If Donald Trump wanted to record one of her songs, what you say is true.
If a movie, TV show, or advertiser wants to use her music, they have to negotiate a deal and the artist usually charges out the ying yang for that.
Back in their day, the TV show Glee performed a number of her songs. Not only did she charge them a fee, she required them to send her a copy of the performance for her approval before they could use it on the show.
True, but not live events.