2 things here:
If you send your kid to public schools, you DESERVE this and everything else public schools do to your kids - don’t blame the schools, they are funded by THE GOVERNMENT, and they will answer only to THE GOVERNMENT. Sure you pay taxes, but the government writes the checks and will take your money at the point of a gun, if necessary. If you want to change the schools, you need to either change the government, or change the way schools are funded (as in vouchers). If you don’t believe me, watch a few videos on Common Core math, and you’ll quickly see who runs things.
Second, kids will always come in contact with prying adults that ask about guns and other internal family matters (like spanking) - if not teachers, then doctors (like my kids) or other social workers. It is critical that kids today be taught HOW TO LIE to these people, and understand that telling the truth may result in them getting new mommies and daddies, with their OEM parents winding up in jail. So any reasonable gun owner would have his kids TRAINED to simply answer that there are no guns in the house - that simple, regardless of whether that is truthful.
As to the political questions...you’re stuck there, since you can’t anticipate them, but then again, it was YOUR CHOICE to send your kid to that public school, so I don’t have much sympathy.
Unfortunately, not everyone has the means to send their kids to private school, or to home school them. And the schools aren't funded by the government, they are funded by us, the taxpayers. The government doesn't really "fund" anything - it just confiscates money from the citizens to do with it as it sees fit.
No people DON’T deserve this from their school district. They deserve an administration who will stand up for what is right. Taxpayers need to start getting good local conservative candidates for school board. Then they can reject non-sense funding demands placed on their districts. If $ comes up short for academic issues, well just maybe funds can come from athletic coffers.
This questionnaire as far as I can tell isn’t on any official letterhead of any school district. Probably some maggot academic liberal teacher who ought to be told to pound sand, put on leave w/o pay, or fired for such cr@p.
Not everyone can afford private school. They are really expensive. Those who cannot afford private school generally must work to put food on the table and a roof over the family's head.
You evidently live in a dream world.
It is far better to adjust the school's behavior than to roll over and play dead.