There is a name for people who pick and choose the laws they will obey. Democrats.
I'll be honest, this issue has grown tiresome for me and I think it's pretty clear that fighting gay marriage is a lost cause.
Just one man's opinion.
If I had to pick my neighbor between a moderate lesbian couple that minds their own business, a white leftist college couple, or a ghetto rat couple, I would choose the lesbian couple for the ones I know just mostly hang around their own people, work hard, and just want to be left the hell alone, though I am not a gay lifestyle believer.
In all honestly you are right it is a lost cause, and the government should have a long time ago got itself out of the marriage business and back then stopped telling who could be with whom and left it to the people which is freedom, that would have save us a lot of pain, and things like the gay marriage debate and even Loving vs VA would not have happened.
- just my opinion.