[Arlis]

Au contraire, my friend.

Everyone who knows them agrees with me.....I do agree that the situation is not normal in any way, but they are........

[SeaHawkFan]

Things may be as you say; but is it possible your friends are simply unwilling to be honest with you? I would suggest a book for your daughters, Finding the Love of Your Life, by Neil Clarke Warren, of eHarmony fame. It's really good.