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Where does the bible say that?

Matt 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Matt 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

In both cases, the English word "fornication" is, in the Greek, πορνεία (porneia): referring to any kind of sexual immorality.

If you read both verses very carefully, you will note that this allows divorce as the result of sexual immorality of the spouse (either before the marriage or during). You will note that those who have been "put away" are from that point forward prohibited from again being married.

So looking at it strictly based upon these two verses, the only way that divorce/remarriage would be permissible is in the case of an innocent spouse who was a virgin at the point of marriage (or a widow / widower) and where the guilty spouse had committed some sort of sexual immorality before or during the marriage. In any other case, it's prohibited.

Then add in the direction of St Paul in 1 Cor 7:10-11:

10 And unto the married I command, [yet] not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from [her] husband: 11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to [her] husband: and let not the husband put away [his] wife.

Note that St Paul directs those who are married and separate should stay single...i.e., not to remarry.

Also note no exceptions to the rule here.

Having said that, there is one exception. If you undergo a conversion and your spouse does not, then, if the unbelieving spouse decides to divorce (leave), then the believing spouse is free to remarry. But that's the only other exception. See 1 Cor 7:12-15:

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. 15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such [cases]: but God hath called us to peace.