We don't do things that way in this country.
We didn't used to. Neither did the Germans.
I think that the Jews who lived in Nazi Germany would have been very pleased to trade their circumstances for the legal system here in the United States. Is it that you haven't been taught what it was like for Jews and minorities in Nazi Germany or is it that you have been taught that you are entitled to live in a world that has been specifically designed for your complete happiness?
Your burden is to live in a world where two mixed-up guys can get married. Why go on living? ;-)