Yes, for a long time in popular culture, it's been OK for a woman to respond violently to her guy deciding to have sex with another woman (but a man who is cuckolded is a target of scorn, for not being "man enough" to keep her happy).
Take Carrie Underwood's "Before He Cheats". If you swapped the sexes, the feminists would flip out.
Did they flip out when Jimi did "Hey Joe"?
Underwood did not write the song. It was written by two homosexual males.