Your side started it.
Try hard (I know it’s almost an impossibility) not to be an imbecile. Whatever or whomever you think is “my side” there is no one that I have seen (and I’ve seen it all) that is calling for disturbing anyone’s grave.
Beyond that, even if someone did call for the relocation of a historical marker (even if it includes a grave) of a “person of note” is not the same (in any way shape or form) to some sawed-off runt like you advocating or agitating to desecrate some veteran’s grave. Why would you even contemplate such a contemptible act? Desecrate a American soldier’s grave?!
You are beneath contempt.