It's like being okay with Auschwitz existing and killing Jews by the millions, but being really upset about Dr Mengele dissecting the corpses after they're dead.
I tend to think many of your neighbors have managed to persuade themselves that abortionists aren't really killing living, and in many cases, viable children, but just "removing tissue".
Stop whining and start fighting. Not with words; with what it takes to win, with what the Left used to DEFEAT freedom, liberty & law: FORCE.
Because as “choice” (in their mind) happens with the first few weeks. In their minds the baby is not formed enough to to recognize superficially as a human being.
Cutting out a “baby” to cut up like a fryer to pass along to the ghoul patrol for sale to the highest bidder is enough to make them go pale.
This knowledge will never change their minds though. They are brainwashed, lazy, and immoral at their core.
Doublethink.
Orwell explained in 1984 how sometimes it's necessary to believe two mutually exclusive ideas at the same time. Two plus two equals four - sometimes, but other times it equals five (if the party says it does).
Pro-aborts have to believe that's not a baby they're cutting up and selling off, it's just tissue, so there's nothing horrific or ghoulish about it. They've developed a callous on their hearts that won't let them feel any guilt (the woman's comment about the demand for "intact hearts" struck me as highly ironic).
OTOH, they know people who believe that it's a person that's being dismembered will be truly horrified, so they hide behind euphemisms and manipulative language to avoid exposure to the truth. It's wrong and not wrong at the same time....