Pedophiles? Drug addicts, criminals? Heavens no.
No I draw boundaries. The same-sex parents ‘look’ normal. They don’t always act the same as traditional parents. They in some cases seem intense but I have no clue what’s behind that and I see tension also in traditional parents but some of the same-sex parents seem to be tense around traditional people. I try to be accommodating because of the kids.
Their kids are allowed to come to our home but my son is not allowed to go to their home. When he is asked over to their home we are usually busy or he has other plans with kids from traditional homes. I make excuses if needed.
I allow them over to our home because I believe it gives them a chance to see life outside their home. I hope it does them some good. They keep wanting to return because we have a big home overlooking the water and mountains, lots of fun things to do.
The reason I posted is I am also a human being that has come into contact with this problem of kids with same-sex parents and I notice somethings different about them. I believe they are hiding shame.
I don’t want to get involved with their problems because I am not qualified or knowledgeable about what goes on behind the doors of their home. If one day one of them ask me for help, I might call a lawyer friend of mine, or some other parents that work in family counseling because I would not know what to do.
I did write that these same-sex parents don’t look queer at all. But that is their appearance in public. I am not going to speculate what goes on inside their home. I do see the kids having a different interaction than other kids. These kids look Ok, they are dressed appropriately and they seem to do Ok in school and sports. But they are not spontaneously happy and joyful like other kids of their age group. They seem like they are carrying something inside. That’s all I can report.
Hopefully you and your family will influence the kids, and I pray that your kids aren't influenced by the homosexual adults.
Male child of lesbian parents, bio son of one w/ donated sperm from a male homosexual acquaintance. Like you said, there is just a strange vibe off the family (and I don't mean being lesbian. They just seem very angry and they seem to put a lot of pressure on the kid. Unfortunately they are pretty vocal in their hatred of men.)
He attempts to behave in a feminine way, probably to try to deflect criticism. That's creepy enough as it is (male child shouting down the stairs, "I can't find my panties!") But I just don't know what is going to happen when he hits puberty.
I've lost touch with these women because it was just too weird, and once I had kids of my own I did NOT want to expose them to that