I think that if you believe in the rule of law, you have to accept the latest ruling of the SCOTUS. You have to abide by it, but you do not have to agree with it.
From a religious perspective, I do not believe in gay marriage. As a matter of law in MA, it is something we have had to deal with for several years now.
As long as they do not “force” my church to marry gays, that is the best I can do right now.
I hear you completely though, as to "that is the best I can do right now." We're all in that boat, and I'm not criticizing you. The state is going to do whatever it wants, and 99.9% of it will follow the rule of law.
One day, maybe the US government will be as odious as Hitler's, or maybe not quite tha tbad, but still a force of harm and evil; and that too will all be according to the rule of law, guaranteed.