Then you submit period. Can’t have it both ways.
Okay, since you say so. But I'll say this, you are totally unable to influence my mind or actions - totally. Until the day you credibly have the upper hand in use of force, and I mean "in my face," not some abstract threat or "force of law" BS, I will continue to ignore whatever the hell I choose to ignore. If you call that "submitting," by all means, please yourself.
Did Gandhi submit?