Well, you think wrong then. The only thing I have from my Great Grand Father that fought in the War Between the States is his picture. I am going to visit his grave tomorrow for my families annual decoration day, which has been held on the third Sunday in May for at least the past 100 years. The Confederacy started and stopped with his generation.
In Georgia, all of our Confederate cemeteries fly the Stars and Bars from a pole at the entrance gates. If a person cannot respect a veteran's grave he has no business trespassing in the cemetery in the first place.