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Michelle Obama speaks of emotional toll of being first black first lady
The Hill ^ | May 9, 2015 | Elise Viebeck

Posted on 05/09/2015 4:42:55 PM PDT by jazusamo

Michelle Obama gave a candid view Saturday of the challenges and emotional toll of being the country’s first black first lady.

Obama, speaking to graduates at Tuskegee University in Alabama, described insensitive media questions and derogatory remarks from political pundits that she said have kept her up at night.

“You might remember the on-stage celebratory fist bump between me and my husband after a primary win that was referred to as a ‘terrorist fist jab,’ ” she said.

“And over the years, folks have used plenty of interesting words to describe me. One said I exhibited ‘a little bit of uppity-ism.’ Another noted that I was one of my husband’s ‘cronies of color.’ Cable news once charmingly referred to me as ‘Obama’s Baby Mama.’ ”

Obama said she was subjected to a different set of expectations on the campaign trail in 2008 compared with other candidates’ wives.

“ ‘What kind of First Lady would I be? What kinds of issues would I take on?’ … The truth is, those same questions would have been posed to any candidate’s spouse,” she said.

“But, as potentially the first African-American First Lady, I was also the focus of another set of questions and speculations; conversations sometimes rooted in the fears and misperceptions of others. Was I too loud, or too angry, or too emasculating? Or was I too soft, too much of a mom, not enough of a career woman?”

In the end, she said, she realized all the negativity was just “noise.”

Obama encouraged the graduates of Tuskegee, a historically black university, to overcome adversity and discrimination by staying “true to the most real, most sincere, most authentic parts of yourselves.”

People “will make assumptions about who they think you are based on their limited notion of the world,” she said. “My husband and I know how frustrating that experience can be. We’ve both felt the sting of those daily slights throughout our entire lives. … And all of that is going to be a heavy burden to carry.”

“But,” she said, “those feelings are not an excuse to just throw up our hands and give up. They are not an excuse to lose hope. To succumb to feelings of despair and anger only means that in the end, we lose.”


TOPICS: News/Current Events; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: michelle; michellespeech; obama
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To: jazusamo
Michelle Obama: Kids Who 'Look Like Me' Feel Unwelcome in Museums

She went full "Al Sharpton". Never go full "Al Sharpton"...

61 posted on 05/09/2015 5:31:53 PM PDT by Caipirabob (Communists... Socialists... Democrats...Traitors... Who can tell the difference?)
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To: tumblindice

“...deep dark depression, excessive misery”


62 posted on 05/09/2015 5:33:13 PM PDT by ntnychik
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To: jazusamo

Mooch the moron should be exiled to Africa for a few years to see what life is really like is really like for black people. Black people in America are living charmed lives and would be as impoverished as Africans if they were not living in a white society that is becoming less white each year.

IOW the only reason blacks here have it so good is due to whitey


63 posted on 05/09/2015 5:33:35 PM PDT by dennisw (The first principle is to find out who you are then you can achieve anything -- Buddhist monk)
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To: jazusamo

Gag. Spoon. Max.


64 posted on 05/09/2015 5:33:44 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: doug from upland

Probably Mary Todd, though they come close


65 posted on 05/09/2015 5:36:06 PM PDT by chajin ("There is no other name under heaven given among people by which we must be saved." Acts 4:12)
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To: jazusamo

Ain’t nobody got the troubles you got, Marie...er, Michelle.


66 posted on 05/09/2015 5:36:16 PM PDT by gogeo (If you are Tea Party, the eGOP does not want you.)
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To: jazusamo

Hey Mooch! You and your freeloading mama can GTHO out of our House anytime.


67 posted on 05/09/2015 5:36:56 PM PDT by Old Yeller (Civil rights are for civilized people.)
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To: Caipirabob
Thanks, good article at link. She definitely went full Al Sharpton."

Last sentence in article:

"Mrs. Obama needs to live in today's world."

68 posted on 05/09/2015 5:39:17 PM PDT by jazusamo (0bama to go 'full-Mussolini' after elections: Mark Levin....and the turkey has.)
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To: JudyinCanada

bttt


69 posted on 05/09/2015 5:39:19 PM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: jazusamo

shes despairing because???/

this is outlandish


70 posted on 05/09/2015 5:39:51 PM PDT by MeshugeMikey ("Never, Never, Never, Give Up," Winston Churchill ><>)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

” ‘Obama’s Baby Mama.”...


71 posted on 05/09/2015 5:40:19 PM PDT by MeshugeMikey ("Never, Never, Never, Give Up," Winston Churchill ><>)
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To: doug from upland

Ditto, ditto and ditto!

Pay back all the $$ you spent on your freakin’ vacations... you ungrateful user/poser!


72 posted on 05/09/2015 5:40:55 PM PDT by krunkygirl (force multiplier in effect...)
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To: jazusamo
From which exotic vacation site did this Royal Lard-Ass speak of her emotional toll. Would be great if this humungously huge lardass would STFU
73 posted on 05/09/2015 5:43:52 PM PDT by laweeks
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To: doug from upland; All

Sorry for double post.


74 posted on 05/09/2015 5:45:56 PM PDT by krunkygirl (force multiplier in effect...)
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To: jazusamo

Yeah, Moochie, it’s been real tough having the press kiss your butt for the past seven years.


75 posted on 05/09/2015 5:52:31 PM PDT by Steve_Seattle
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To: The Ghost of FReepers Past
It's been a while, but more along the lines of the failure of whites to accept blacks, iirc.

She tossed in a graph claiming to illustrate the acceptance of blacks by whites with exposure over time or the like.

The graph seemed to me to be nonsensical padding, rather adding to what woefully little content was already there.

76 posted on 05/09/2015 5:53:19 PM PDT by Calvin Locke
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To: jazusamo

I really want to hear about Moochelle’s victim skin. I feel so sorry for the oppressed pig.


77 posted on 05/09/2015 5:53:31 PM PDT by SaraJohnson
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To: jazusamo
I'm sure all of those multi million dollar vacations help some, right Moochell?

5.56mm

78 posted on 05/09/2015 5:55:06 PM PDT by M Kehoe
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To: jazusamo

Yeah, and Hillary is Dead Broke


79 posted on 05/09/2015 5:55:14 PM PDT by bestintxas (every time a RINO loses, a founding father gets his wings.)
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To: jazusamo

I never thought I would live to see a First Lady do a hula hoop, jump rope, wear crappy shorts, dance on TV like she is in a ghetto street contest, eat a burger with no class and many more “unclassy” behavior.


80 posted on 05/09/2015 5:59:20 PM PDT by Engedi
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