After my divorce, when I had to relearn the rules of dating, I was truly shocked.
We live in a “sex on the third date society”.
2 is too few (slut) and 4 is too many (prude). I saw this over and over.
It is now standard convention to have sex on the third date.
And that’s presuming your not just having buddy sex with casual friends. Before, this wasn’t possible: somebody develops feelings for the other (the woman). Not anymore. Society has changed.
Why get married?
In fact, the only reason to get married is to protect your morality. In this society, that makes you a sucker.
If all the single women out there are dropping their drawers on the third date, and let’s say she’s 30. I mean, the number of men who have gone before is staggering.
I've heard about the "third date rule," too, from friends who date. It seems that people today think there's something wrong with a person who chooses to abstain. As a parent, I worry about my sons growing up in this kind of culture.