Yes!
If you don’t have the courage to stand up and say “NO!” then you don’t deserve my support.
It is NOT “hate” to decline to participate in a pretend marriage.
“If you don’t have the courage to stand up and say “NO!” then you don’t deserve my support.”
I’ll have to agree with you. It does no good to whine about a question being asked to smear someone. It has always been done; it will always be done. If you say you are against gay marriage (which means you think it is wrong) and then say you would attend a gay marriage (which means you are agreeing with it) then you are saying one of your positions on the concept is a lie. The voter has to guess which one.