Bull sh*t.
That same government which seizes the elderly homes, cars and assets provides all kinds of freebies, prizes and incentives for tens of millions of illegal aliens. This has been going on for many decades now.
My plan is to marry one of my grandchildren or great-grandchildren (if I ever have one) if I’m widowed. Because of SSM, I’ll be allowed to marry someone I love. The govt will have a hard time seizing assets if they’re passed down that way, IMO.