I'm too old. But, if I were younger, with kids, I'd seriously look at several South American countries. Asia too. Lots of Americans are going to Mexico. Canada's health care used to be a deal breaker. Now, not so much.
Even in supposedly socialist countries, the actual governments usually are just cronies who have little power over peoples' everyday lives.
My Dad died in 1975. He wouldn't recognize what we've become.
Good grief. Go ahead-move to Mexico, Canada or South America. If your father would approve of you abandoning this country, I’d be very surprised.