Black Women May Need to Change Their Perspective When Dating a Black Man Going Through Hard Times

The Atlanta Black Star ^ | March 15, 2015 | Taylor Gordon

[IDontLikeToPayTaxes]

Seems to me that more black women are changing their perspective and choosing to date white men. As one black girl told me. “Its a whole lot safer”.

I'll second that. I have been getting a lot of interest from absolutely gorgeous and intelligent black women for several years now. From my experience, black women value college education and want a good career and want nothing to do with the Thug Culture.

A lot of people would be surprised about the number of black women who have never dated and have no interest in black men.

[IDontLikeToPayTaxes]

Ironically ugly white women seem to gravitate toward black guys.

They gravitate in that direction because they know their value in the marriage market. Cruel, but true.

I've seen this, too. Black men (generally speaking and from my experience) are "chubby chasers", i.e., they like FAT women. Not necessarily just curvy, but actually obese.

Nasty, gross, morbidly obese white women can usually get a black boyfriend if they try.

[Chode]

protector and the provider i stopped reading right there...

[MoochPooch]

A lot of black men CANNOT STAND being with a black women. They are constantly being told they're no good, worthless, etc.

While the current black pathologies are frequently blamed on the absent father, I think the black women may be partially responsible. I hate to use the B word, but so many of them are even more vicious than the men. Most likely they hook up, then at some point the woman (barely out of her teens) drives the guy away with her own emotional instability. It becomes a vicious cycle.

[MoochPooch]

Ironically ugly white women seem to gravitate toward black guys.

I knew a lower-class, obese white woman who hung out with them. Because of her looks, white men wouldn't date her, whereas black men would date anyone white.

[kearnyirish2]

Some of the “absent father” mantra is a myth; often the father is there but they don’t marry for benefits. Whites have started doing the same; a lot of white kids have “single mothers” while daddy lives at home with them.

The biggest difference is that the relationship is often less stable (sometimes a revolving door of daddies, many who deposit a welfare trophy of their own in the nest before the female “trades up” to another guy).

[Feckless]

The maximum effective range of an excuse is zero meters....

[GOPJ]

How can he hold onto his aspirations of being a provider for his family when racially biased hiring practices and a corrupt justice system are leaving Black men even further disadvantaged economically?

Racially biased? Is that what it's called when one of the 20 million illegals Obama's brought in takes a job from a black man gets the job?

[KosmicKitty]

[__rvx86]

Yup. Mr Povich has no shortage of guests at the present time...

[Pollster1]

“Black men, however, are increasingly facing the harsh realities of mass-incarceration and the sky-high unemployment rates that have disallowed them access to the typical ‘masculine’ roles — leaving then vulnerable and confused.”

I wish there was something these men could do to avoid incarceration and unemployment. My strategy was working hard and not committing crimes, but I'm not sure whether that would work for other people.

[MrB]

No, that strategy won’t work for black men because of YT’s racism.