I think you’re correct. At some point people (women) need to decide that they’re not going to let someone else tell them what they “should” do, and do what is best for their family. All the women who complain about people saying things like “You’re just a mom.” need to grow up. Of course, as God goes more and more out of fashion, a mother’s role becomes further and further from what He wants it to be.
People whocsay that really docnot understand just ho much it takes to raise a child WELL. They may see people half-assing it and think that’s what it is, but not if you want to do it right and well.