is there a rule for using motherland and fatherland? Do northern countries tend to use fatherland more?
The Wikipedia article on fatherland lists close to 50 languages/countries that employ a term thats the equivalent of fatherland. Location, north or south, doesnt seem to have much to do with it.
Its not surprising that fatherland would be the term for ones native country in any language that has any historical association with the Romans; the Latin word for fatherland is patria.
In the OED the expression Mother country has an earlier documentation date than fatherland, but fatherland precedes motherland:
1587 Mother country: a country in relation to its colonies.
1595 Mother country: ones native land
1623 fatherland: country of ones birth
1711 motherland: a country as producer of anything; ones native country
In the 1930s the expression the Fatherland was widely used to refer to Germany. For many English speakers the association remains. When the United States adopted the term Homeland Security after the attack on the World Trade Center, the expression bothered me no end. Homeland made me think fatherland and that made me think of Nazis. Homeland security no longer raises hackles, but the word fatherland still holds negative connotations for me.
A country closely associated with the word motherland is Russia. In fairy tales, and in Russian literature before 1917, one often encounters the expression Mother Russia. After the Revolution, the Soviets preferred the expression Rossiya-Matushka, which Im told translates as Mother Motherland.
WARNING: Read the readers comments before repeating any of the remarks about Russia. Actual Russian speakers disagree. Maeve
As to a rule for the use of fatherland vs motherland, I think the choice would depend upon the connotation sought by the author in a particular context. Fatherland suggests government and order. Motherland connotes birth and nurturing.
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That also creeped me out and made the hair on the back of my neck raise up. I could not believe someone, especially from the Republican Party, would create such a named agency.
I have been leery of our ever expanding government since I was a teenager and when DHS was created I decided we had become something other than a free nation where the individual reigned supreme.