I don't that is why the contradiction is so insidious.
You are depending on it, it seems. Gee, if the government says it is ok, then it makes it harder for you to raise your children. The government is always going to do something that is contradictory to morally sound parenting choices. That is why the government shouldn’t be in the business of regulating morality. Period.
There are things they are constitutionally required to provide us, the rest of it is an overreach of their powers.