I have four daughters (18-28) and only one seems to be broken. It was hell keeping them in line and I went almost nuts daily trying to keep the wolves away. I blame them for my baldness and raised blood pressure. But to be fair, most of the guys are “broken” too.
There is a whole segment of that age group that is broken. Just look at what they watch, like MTV programming, which glorifies “broken”.
that’s one thing that is never taken into account.
By the time a lot of men are in their twenties their main reason for living is sex. Yet, by their thirties, men are so burned that even if they are looking for commitment, even nice girls are uninterested in them.
To me, women respond to the standard set by young men. So while they’re young, young women end up messing around because that is the standard that young men set up. Yet, oddly, older men were more interested in settling down, but didn’t seem to realize that their youthful rutting with anything that was female (human of course) contributed to the number of women who apparently are ‘unsuitable’ and then blame women for giving them what they wanted when they were younger.
So yes, men are becoming difficult and messed up as well.
I’m glad I’ve been chaste after breaking up with my first serious boyfriend, I’ve been baggage free since.